This research is for the purpose of discussing the parenting stress, the intimate emotion and conflict-coping strategy for mothers of disability children. Its main goal has three: First, in the discussion disability children family, the different background mother in parenting stress, the intimate emotion, conflict-coping strategy in difference situation. Second, in the discussion disability children family, family, differently parenting stress mother in intimate emotion, conflict-coping strategy in connection situation; As well as different intimate emotion mother in conflict-coping strategy situation. Third, in discussion disability children family, mother''s own parenting stress to intimate emotion, conflict-coping strategy.
This research uses the questionnaire survey law, altogether obtains 200 disability children’s
mother to fill in effectively asks the volume, simultaneously take "basic data questionnair", "
parenting stress scale ", " couple emotions scale " and "conflict-coping strategy scale
",. In the data processing aspect, by single factor variation statistical method and so on number
analysis, Pearson correlation, social stratum regression analysis tests ten research suppositions. This
research main discovery as follows:
1. The disability children’s mothers feel the own parenting stress receive the oneself itself age, the education level, the household income, the children counts, factor and so on disability children’s degree reveal the influence.
2. The disability children’s mothers consciousness arrive the trust, the respect and the harmony husbands and wives of emotion receives the education level, the household income, the children counts and so on the factor reveal the influence.
3. The disability children’s mothers when faces each kind of conflict situation, use receives the household income, the family in accordance to the strategy condition, the children counts, factor and so on child age reveal the influence.
4. The disability children’s mothers in faces the serious self-development, the mood adapts, worried when the child and so on kisses the parenting stress, is easier to have the mood to divulge, to accuse opposite party conflict in accordance to the way.
5. When the disability children’s mothers feel gentleman more husbands and wives emotion and so on trusts, gratitude, respect, its use "directly expresses the oneself innermost feelings the feeling and the idea", "first tries to realize opposite party situation, the choice opportune moment said again" the frequency will increase; Under compares, the use "the mood divulges, accuses opposite party" the frequency to be able to reduce.
6. When the mothers in faces the children which give birth to is the body and mind barrier child, to "worried child" the own duty pressure for most reveals, this suddenly appears the mother because of to give birth to the body and mind barrier child, but has excessively many worrying with the crime malice, even will be able to regard as the child future development the responsibility which the life is unable to dismount.
7. The disability children’s mothers feel the husbands and wive harmony, the respect, the trust sentiment of with kisses between the duty pressure to present reveals, but the scholar benefits Li, green-shan findings is presents is being connected. Facing the above inconsistent result, besides in the text proposed the correlation discussion, also wait for the scholars further discussion.
8. "Entire family each month of income" speaking of the disability children’s mothers, has acted the quite important role. It not only can forecast between husbands'' and wives'' trust, the respect and the harmony sentiment of, simultaneously also can affect kisses duty pressure itself to the husbands and wives between the intimate emotion forecast strength, that is kisses the duty pressure to the intimate emotion forecast strength to be able because "entire family each month of income" influence, but changes comparatively does not reveal.
The researcher also discovered East and West undertakes regarding the parents responsibility also has the different view. For example, in the western culture, the parents compare are willing to seek the assistance on own initiative which outside the family the human resources obtains needs; Under compares, the detectable mother usually will treat as in this research child''s future development the heavy burden which will be duty-bound, such point of view instead will hinder it to seek the sources on own initiative the assistance and the pressure release and in ordance to the way.
Finally, proposed the correlation concrete suggestion, supplies the reader and the following
research reference. Hoped the affiliation from this research, can assist the disability children’s mothers, the social welfare unit, to consult business to counsel the personnel to be able to understand the intimate emotion the importance, and provides the related resources which needs with to consult business counselling, assists the mother to be able to reduce parenting stress and selects the better communication method.